How to Know If You Are Having An "Emotional Affair | Are You Having an Emotional Affair?

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Emotional cheating is very common in the workplace and on the Internet. This is the reason why we hear so many stories about marriages destroyed because of a co-worker or a past lover who reconnected with the spouse over the Internet. Most of the time, the husband is in denial or does not know that he is in one until it is too late.

By having more heart to heart conversations with your boyfriend, it will give you a better understanding as to where he is mentally in your relationship. It may also even give you a clear indication if there is anything physical taking place with your boyfriend and another woman.

A lot of couples have ended their relationship because of this problem. The psychologists even said that an emotional affair is more dangerous than a sexual affair because it involves emotional feelings and attachments. Deception and unfaithfulness are also very common in emotional infidelity and these are the reasons why many couples go into separation.

It is very important that you first get in touch with your own feelings about his affair before you confront him. A great way to do this is through journaling. Start a journal that you can keep in a secret place where nobody (including your husband) will find it.

By having more heart to heart conversations with your boyfriend, it will give you a better understanding as to where he is mentally in your relationship. It may also even give you a clear indication if there is anything physical taking place with your boyfriend and another woman.

Communication is the key and you might get your answer by asking him directly. If he talks a lot about this girl, then ask him who she is. Always remember to keep your cool and avoid being accusative. The same goes to your girl who seems to like to spend much time on her new found friend rather than with you. Tell him how much you've missed him, and you're interested to know what he did while he was gone.

Your wife stops talking to you. This is a huge red flag that is screaming for you to pay attention. If your marriage is like most marriages, your wife discusses any and everything with you in far more detail than you need or want. When she stops talking to you it means there is someone else she is talking to.

An emotional affair usually starts in a casual friendship. They talk about things that interest them and hang out together. Have lunch at the same time and tell jokes. Then an emotional connection begins to develop and they bond more. The husband realizes that this person can understand him more than his wife. She then becomes her confidant and they begin sharing things that are personal.

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