How to Win Your Wife Back After Separation

Just remember that you're not doing yourself any favors by acting desperate. Even if you get down on your knees and beg for forgiveness, it's unlikely that she's going to change her mind. While you may not see the logic in it, that's human nature. In fact, you're probably doing much more harm than you realize.
The two of you may have started blaming everything wrong on each other. This is very common. No one wants to take the blame for anything. But there IS no blame. When a marriage goes sour, it is either because you don't know how to handle the problems you are having, or you don't want to deal with them - hoping they will go away on their own.

You will need to know that since it is relationship, promises and plans that are broken, this may be a time consuming process. Healing would always be difficult but once you are aware of the things that can help you save your marriage, then this can be easier.

If you call her every day, apologize for what you may have done, and beg her to come back to you; she'll regard this as another intervention to her life. She needed a break, she needed some personal space and personal time, but if you try to be in her life again by calling frequently, she will think she is again being denied of what she was asking; and then she'll get frustrated again. Clearly making her frustrated is not how to win your wife back after separation.

Be real with yourself - I'm talking brutally honest here. You need to "man-up". Your wife didn't leave just because you left the toilet seat up one too many times! There are some real serious issues that you are going to have to take an honest look at and come up with ways of replacing them with new, positive and constructive habits and attitudes.

Nobody is perfect and I am not going to judge anyone, but if you'll take a good look you'll see that it's much deeper than you think. Women need a lot of attention, love and care. Your wife wants to know you appreciate and respect her. Those are the main causes of break up and divorces today but there are also other things that individual to every couple!
 

Do not turn up at where she is staying, or her workplace. Give her some time. Remember that she is not with you because she wants to be away from you. Her seeing you on a regular basis is not going to make her want to come back to you. Give her time and space.

Let her know that you would love for her to come back, but leave it at that. Don't pressure her to move back in or announce to the world that she is coming back until she approaches you about that herself.

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